Nowadays teenagers have a misconception on dating. No, not dating as in girlfriend or
boyfriend; simply dating as in taking a person out to get to know each other more. “Dating” can
take place with people in a relationship or before a possible relationship occurs. Some
teenagers think of dating as going to movies or texting and asking that person to be their
significant other. This “How to” talks about how to take someone on a date to get to know each
other more.
Step 1: ChoosingFirst, you need to figure out who you’re going to ask on a date. Is it the cute girl in your math
class? Is it the “really hot” guy that you see during passing period but never talked to? Is it the
person you ask for a piece of paper from during class?
Step 2: Make Yourself NoticedStand out from everybody else. You need to introduce yourself to them and get to know each
other a little bit. Figure out if this is really the person you want to take on a date.
A way for you to start a conversation is to take a picture of them and ask for their name and say
you are in Yearbook (I have done this twice and I am not in Yearbook). Another way to start a
conversation is simple, be friendly and make friends with that person.
WARNING: Do not stand out by stalking or following them!
Step 3: Ask that Person on a DateBy now, you should know who you want to take on a date. The person you want to take should
be used to you by now. Now is the time where you stand up and take the risk of asking the
person on a date. Be simple, just say the words “Do you want to go on a date with me?” This
step does not have to be anything big.
WARNING: There is a chance of the person rejecting you.
Step 4 (If that person accepts): PlanningCongratulations, the person you asked agreed to go on a date with you. Since you are the
person who asked to go on a date, most likely you’re the person who has to plan it. This step is
where the nerves kick in, the person accepted the date and now you have to make it a
memorable one. Take into consideration the other person, it may be something you like to do
but the other person might hate it.
The planning stage, this step does not have to be extravagant. A simple picnic at the park or a
nice coffee date will suffice.
TIP: Here are a few first date ideas that I have done and it ended up being memorable.
● “Coffee date”: Visit a local coffee shop or any Starbucks. Enjoy a nice drink and a nice
conversation getting to know each other a little more.
● “Study date”: If both of you have an upcoming test, meet up at the library and study
together. Help each other when needed.
● “Movie Marathon/ TV Show date”: Find a common tv show or movie that both of you
guys enjoy and binge watch that series or movie. Do not forget the snacks; such as
popcorn, candy, and some drinks.
● “Picnic date”: Go to a grocery store together and buy all kinds of food. Once this is done,
go to a local park and have a picnic.
● “Cheap date”: If you are trying to save money, a nice free date is stargazing together or
taking a walk around the city.
Step 5: Preparing Yourself for the DateDepending on what kind of date you have you do not have to be all fancy in a suit or a nice
dress. If it is a dinner date go ahead dress nice, there is no problem with dressing up and going
on a date. However, if you are having a movie marathon date or a “stay home” kind of date I
suggest that you will try to present yourself nicely. Wear your nice pair of sweatpants not the
faded kind, wear a nice clean shirt, and do your hair. No matter what kind of date it is be
presentable. Do not under dress but do not over dress, think about the kind of date you have
planned. NEVER go on a date not groomed.
Step 6: The Actual DateDo not be scared, the person you asked already said yes. Now is the time to go through with
your plan. Have a good time and do not let the date become boring. Do not be afraid if your date
does not go as planned. The date will run smoothly and it will go in different paths. Have fun and
keep the conversation going, make them laugh and want to go out on another date with you.
I hope you have a good time on your date and do not be scared. Take the risk because in the
future you will either regret not asking the other person on a date or you will love that you asked
them on a date. Have a good time on your date!