Friendship has many different definitions in life. They
usually differ between culture and where you are in the world and people have
different views of what friendship is. The official definition of friendship is
a relationship of mutual affection between
people. Most children first make friends with people by
the age of 3 but fully understand the concept of friendship by age 8.
We all grew up knowing that friendship on a simple level is
someone you interact with on a daily basis and like to spend your time with. As
children we thought friendship was just someone you would eat lunch with ,
trade Pokemon Cards with or play sports with. In lower grade levels it seemed
everyone in the class were friends with each other. However the higher you get
in education, the more noticeable it is on how people are divided and all those
people you had “friendships” with are all gone now. This may not be the case
for some but it is for most people,since it is unlikely to stay friends with
all those people from kindergarten.
Friendship isn’t only based on how long you have known the person.
It is also based on how much you connect with that person and the trust you
have between each other. For example I have only known some people for a couple
years now but I feel much more closer to them than to people I have talked to
since middle school. Friendship really just dwells down to the point of how
well you connect with each other. Not only that, but also how much effort each
person is willing to put into the friendship they have. You can have someone
who rarely wants to talk to you and that's okay, or you can have someone else
who always wants to hang out and is willing to help you in life.
Friendship not only helps you not be lonely in life, but also
having a healthy friendship with someone could also make you a better person in
life. When you have a good relationship with someone then you both aren’t
afraid to tell each other things, good or bad. You both will be able to help
each other and give advices, whereas if someone else you didn’t know as well
told you, you may get a little upset. They will tell you the truth and tell
what to do and what not to do.
Soon friendship becomes something bigger than friendship itself.
When asked how many friends I have, I tend to say that I am pretty chill with
everyone however I do have those people who are close to me and basically my
brothers. You get passed the point with someone where words can’t even describe
the relationship you two have. You both are more than friends and your
friendship turns into sibling level. You think that you will be close like this
forever until you die. However this could all be gone in a split second. One
day it could all end and that’s just how friendships work.




